Monday, October 21, 2013

Birthday Pinata

I'm not terribly fond of the idea of spending $20 for a pinata, but my kids seem to want one for every birthday party.  Hummingbird's party is coming up this weekend, and she has decided she wants a Candy theme.  She wanted a lollipop pinata, but I couldn't find a reasonable way to do it.  So, she agreed to a Nerds candy box as long as it could be rainbow colors.  So, I found a medium size box, printed out a Nerds logo, and started adding tissue paper this morning.  And voila! In about 2.5 hours I had a cute little pinata filled with candy and ready to be hung and beaten to pieces.  

I'm saving myself the usual effort of making the cake.  Instead, we'll be having Nutella pizza from Piece (a great neighborhood pizza place) with M&Ms spelling out "Happy Birthday" and other designs.  The food will all be junky -- candy and sweet relations, nothing healthy!  Definitely Hummingbird's dream!

For games, we'll be doing a peanut butter cup hunt in Easter egg fashion, and playing "poison candy bar" (hot potato, and winner gets the candy bar).

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

The Ten Commandment: Exodus 20


I realized the other day that I've never sat down with my children and taught them about the Ten Commandments.   We've talked about the Golden Rule – Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  We've made family rules – no hitting, no name calling, etc.  But we've never actually stopped to talk about God's rules.  Having realized this, and seeing some problem behaviors beginning to develop, I came up with this short lesson for teaching kids about the Ten Commandments.


Step 1: Read Exodus 20. (I have to say this because I'm not the best role model for daily scripture reading. I'm working on it, though…)

Step 2: Have your children rephrase each of the commandments in their own words. For example, "Honor thy father and they mother" becomes something like, "Be respectful to your parents and listen to them. Talk about what God tells us to do or not do, discuss the order the commandments are given. What is the significance of that (Commandments about our relationship with God are first…)? Ask for examples of behaviors that might break the commandments (when I say my sister ate the candy that I really ate, I am bearing false witness).  And answer any questions your kids have.

Step 3: Make & play a game (This is the part that most intrigued my kids.). I created a lift-the-flap Ten Commandments activity. For younger children the commandments would already be inserted under the flaps, and they could lift the flaps for you to read the rule. For older children the commandments could be removed and mixed up, so they could then put them in order under the appropriate flap (see the picture below).

Instructions to create your own (the kids can help, too):
  1. On poster board (or other heavy paper) draw two large stone tablets.
  2. On index cards (or card stock paper) write the numbers 1-10. Make a fold line near the top of each card, and glue them to the poster above the fold line.
  3. Print out the attached template of the commandments and cut out each individually (I've made this a Word document so you can change the paraphrases or remove them altogether.). For a sturdier game, put these on index cards or laminate.
Ways to play:
  1. Mix up the commandment cards, and time each child to see who can put them in order first.
  2. Let each child draw a card and place it in the right spot until all cards are placed. Whoever puts the most in the right spot wins.
  3. Insert the cards under the proper numbers. Pick a number, and whoever says the commandment first gets the card. The person with the most cards at the end wins.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Elevation of the Cross

On September 14 we will be celebrating the Elevation of the Cross, and by celebrating, I mean fasting.  For this is one of two feast days which we actually commemorate with fasting.  Just what are we commemorating with this feast?

In 326 AD St. Helen, the mother of Constantine, made a pilgrimage to Jerusalem.  While at the site of Golgotha, St. Helen found the cross on which Christ was crucified.  Near the cross was also a beautiful and unknown flower, which we now call basil (from Greek, "Vasiliko") meaning "of the King," and named for the King of Glory.

How did St. Helen know she had found the cross of Christ the King?  It is said that

Underneath the Basil, the Cross of Christ was found, but with it were the other two crosses, those used to crucify the two thieves on either side of Christ. The sign with the inscription, "Jesus of Nazareth, the King of the Jews", also lay among the three crosses. In order to determine which one was the true cross, a sick woman was told to kiss each of the three crosses. The woman kissed the first cross with no result. She kissed the second cross and again nothing happened. However, when the ailing woman kissed the True Cross, she was immediately made well. It so happened that a funeral procession was passing that way, and so the body of the dead man was placed on each of the crosses, and when it was placed on the True Cross, the dead man came to life — thus the name the “Life-Giving” Cross, which gives life not only to that man, but to each person who believes in the sacrifice of Christ on the Cross and His all-glorious three day Resurrection.*

When the identity of the cross was known, it was then lifted up (elevated) for all to see.

That is the first part of our commemoration, but there is more.  In 614 AD the Persians attacked Jerusalem and captured the Cross.  But in 627 AD, Emperor Heraclius defeated the Persians at the Battle of Nineveh and reclaimed the Cross.  When the Emperor returned with the Cross to Jerusalem in 630 AD, it was placed in the Temple of the Resurrection and again lifted up for all to see and venerate.

In addition to a special Troparion and Kontakion, there is a special hymn that replaces the Trisagion on this feast day.

Troparion:
O Lord, save Thy people, / And bless Thine inheritance. / Grant victory to the Orthodox Christians / Over their adversaries / And by the virtue of Thy Cross / Preserve Thy habitation
Kontakion:
As You were voluntarily raised upon the cross for our sake, / Grant mercy to those who are called by Your Name, O Christ God; / Make all Orthodox Christians glad by Your power, / Granting them victories over their adversaries, / By bestowing on them the Invincible trophy, Your weapon of Peace.
Instead of the Trisagion we sing:
Before Thy Cross we bow down in worship, O Master, and Thy holy Resurrection we glorify. (Three times)
Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit,
both now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen.
And Thy holy Resurrection we glorify.
Before Thy Cross we bow down in worship, O Master, and Thy holy Resurrection we glorify.


Lesson for Children:

Show your children an icon of the Elevation of the Cross and tell them the stories of the finding and recapturing of the it.

As the feast falls on a Saturday this year, make an effort to attend Vigil (or Vespers) Friday night (what a great excuse to let them stay up late!), and the Liturgy Saturday morning.  They'll be able to see the cross decorated with flowers or basil branches, and hear the hymns venerating it.

Plan a craft.  Below are two ideas.  The first is preschoolers, and the second for slightly older children.

Elevation of the cross bookmark
Supplies:
Cardstock paper
Template
Icon of the Elevation of the Cross
Scissors
Glue
Fine tip marker
Laminating pouch (optional)

Use the template to print a cross on cardstock paper.  Cut it out.  On one side glue a small icon of the Elevation of the Cross (you can let your child choose one online and print out a thumbnail print).  On the other side write one of the hymns above.  Laminate it to make it sturdier if desired and cut around the edges.  Although you'll need to do the writing (or print out the hymn and let your child glue it on), let your child to as much of the work as possible, even if it isn't perfect.

Beaded Prayer Rope
30 medium sized beads
29-31 tiny beads (for spacers)
a length of jewelry string
small wooden cross
paint & paint brush

Paint the cross in any color.  While the cross dries, string the beads on alternating large and small.  You can choose whether to have the large beads or the smaller beads flush with the cross.  For symmetry's sake, add the cross and put the string through in both directions (an adult may need to do the finishing off).  Tie two small knots on either side.  To help it stay tied and hide the knots, paint them to match the cross.

Alternately, string the cross just like the beads and tie a single knot to one side.